Daddies needs some support too...

Some daddies are very self motivated when mommies are expecting.. while some need some encouragement to keep up the good work..

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Dear mommies, we need to understand our hubbies needs is also important. they too get worried and anxious and sometimes this may cause problems should it is not communicated properly. We mommies may think daddies are not supportive, not being there for us, not encouraging etc...

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Daddies need to be encouraged and how to do that? Sometimes by letting them do what they feel like doing once a while like hang out with frens, play computer games etc (but not too excessive ones lar) i think it's alright... i mean we cannot ask our hubbies to stay with us 24/7 without spending some "me" time for himself and expect them to be happy all the time.. they need some time off also lar.. right?

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And don't forget to show appreciation to your hubby every time he did something nice for you.. A "thank you" and some kind words is very meaningful in times like this coz sometimes they dunno how or what do to that would make you a little happier.. so, show them some love by telling them their action meant something to you and you cherish it :)

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We mommies goes through a lot of hormonal changes and yes.. temper temper~~~ beginning of my pregnancy i was over sensitive at certain things and get angry very easily... and i wonder why i would suddenly snapped? Then after knowing i am pregnant, i know i need to have more self control and take it easy. They always say Pregnant women always got bad temper.. well yes, but i think temper can be managed, right? we have self control... so use it!!! This will encourage the daddies to be more relaxed... having an argumentative and angry wife for about 9 full months is not very encouraging lor..

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I'm sure there are other good ideas out there that helps daddies cope with the new arrival... should you have any comments.. do share.. :D